Cher shares thoughtful approach to writing about transgender son Chaz Bono in memoir, got his ‘blessing’

Cher (seen here in October) got her transgender son Chaz Bono’s “blessing” to use his deadname in her memoir. Getty Images

Cher shares her thoughtful approach to writing about her transgender son, Chaz Bono, in her new memoir, saying she got his “blessing” to use his deadname, Chastity.

“I refer to my son Chaz as Chas, the name he went by during the years covered in this book,” the “Believe” singer writes in a note at the beginning of “Cher: The Memoir, Part One” (per the New York Times).

“Chaz has granted his blessing for this usage,” she shares. “In the next volume, at the appropriate point, I will refer to my son as Chaz.”

“Cher: The Memoir, Part One” hits bookstores Tuesday. HarperCollins Publishers

The Goddess of Pop writes that she used the name Bono (pictured here in 2017) “went by during the years covered in this book” but “will refer to [him] as Chaz” in volume two. WireImage

Bono, whom Cher shared with her late ex-husband Sonny Bono, famously began his transition in 2008 ahead of his 40th birthday and legally changed his name and gender in 2010.

The “If I Could Turn Back Time” singer, 78, has admitted that it was a big adjustment for her.

“It wasn’t easy,” she told CNN in 2020. “I remember calling, and the old [voicemail] message … was on the phone, and that was very difficult.”

Cher shared Bono with her late ex-husband Sonny Bono (seen here in 1973). Getty Images

The “I Got You Babe” collaborators (shown above in 1966) were married from 1964 to 1975. Getty Images

However, Cher, who has been an icon to the LGBTQIA+ community for decades, ultimately came around.

“You don’t really lose them. They just are in a different shape,” she explained during the interview, adding that Chaz, now 55, was “so unbelievably happy.”

The first part of the Goddess of Pop’s memoir hits bookstores Tuesday, tracing her childhood, marriage to Sonny, who died in a 1998 skiing accident, and early music career.

Cher (seen here in 2012) previously admitted Chaz’s transition “wasn’t easy” for her. Jason Merritt

“You don’t really lose them. They just are in a different shape,” the “Believe” singer said in 2020 of Chaz (shown above in October). GP/ MEGA

HarperCollins Publishers previously said the second volume was expected sometime in 2025, but Cher confessed to the Times that she has not even started writing it yet.

“[Part one] exhausted me,” she said in Sunday’s profile. “It took a lot out of me.”

The “Moonstruck” star is also the mother of son Elijah Blue Allman, whom she welcomed with her second husband, Gregg Allman.

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