Masturbation isn’t something any of us should be shy about, but when the mood strikes, some of us seize it a little too tightly.
To put it plainly, if you’ve got a penis, grabbing it too hard while pleasuring yourself could leave orgasms further out of reach.
It’s what is known in slang terms as Death Grip Syndrome (DGS), though there’s actually no official medical name for the condition.
Some credit sex columnist Dan Savage with coining the term back in the early 2000s, but it’s also popped up in various Reddit threads over the years. It even got a formal Urban Dictionary entry in 2010.
But we wouldn’t put your physical health in the hands of public forums, so we had Dr Lawrence Cunningham tell us just how real (or not) it is.
What is Death Grip Syndrome?
The doctor believes many men are unaware their masturbation habits could impact their sexual health, and let’s face it, none of us want any lingering problems just because we went a little too hard.
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Death Grip Syndrome may sound alarming, Dr Cunningham explains, but it doesn’t do any physical damage to the penis in the traditional sense.
The issue, he says, is when it comes to sexual stimulation: ‘The persistent use of a tight grip can condition the nerves and tissues to respond only to this specific form of stimulation.
‘This can make it challenging to experience pleasure and achieve orgasm through more typical forms of sexual activity.’
What are the symptoms?
It goes without saying that this is going to decrease your levels of sexual satisfaction, which no one wants.
According to men’s health website Hims and medical adviser Mike Bohl, other symptoms include penile pain and anorgasmia.
The latter is a condition where you experience delayed, infrequent or absent orgasms — in other words, it’s a form of sexual dysfunction.
Dr Cunningham adds: ‘Years of consistent, tight-grip masturbation usually doesn’t lead to complete anorgasmia, but it can certainly lead to delayed ejaculation or reduced pleasure.’
The physical effects can result in anxiety and relationship issues too, so the doctor believes addressing the issue is crucial.
Is DGS common and is it reversible?
‘I believe I’ve seen a number of men who experience these issues. It’s common enough that sexual health professionals encounter it regularly, but many men may not realise it’s the root of their difficulties,’ he explains.
If you’re experiencing any of these symptoms, don’t be stressed because it’s generally treatable and ‘often reversible’.
How? Well, Dr Cunningham suggests: ‘Start with a change in masturbation habits; using a gentler touch and exploring different types of stimulation.
‘Incorporating more mindful and varied sexual practices can also help. In some cases, professional counselling or sex therapy can provide additional support and strategies to regain sensitivity and sexual satisfaction.’
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